How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You On This Valentine's

Valentine’s Day or St. Valentine’s Day falls on February 14 every year. This is one of the most awaited days among all occasions that celebrate relationships. Since, this involves one of the most beautiful and intriguing of all human emotions, love.  This is a great time to express your feelings in front of your partner and I promise you will tie in love, relationship or marriage.

What if you don’t have a partner right now or what if you are in deep love with the person who doesn’t even notice you? Just go through this article and you will find the answers of the most of your questions.

People are often wondering and discussing things like, “How to talk to girls?” or “What will he think?” or “How do I get him to notice me?” or something on those lines... Whether you accept it or not, everyone wants to be in love with someone. And everyone wants someone to love them! But, the problem is, few people know how the whole process of “love” is done!

Well, I am not a love guru or relationship counselor but I understand the functions and programming of human brain. I understand how a human mind thinks and works. I am not going to give you daily love tips at Rs. 30/month like most cell phone companies do. I will explain the human behavior pattern that makes us fall in love with someone.

You see, actually, “love” is a very natural thing. If you just rely on your instincts, you will get it right! But the problem is, now-a-days almost nobody knows how to rely on their instincts. Everything people know about “love” comes from “advertisements”, “movies”, “T.V.” etc.

But, the problem is “advertisements”, “movies”, and “T.V.” etc. are not interested in telling you about the “true” nature of love! They are interested in selling their products and making money. If they start preaching the “true” nature of love, their products will not sell and they will not make any money. This is because; the true nature of love is not half as “glamorous” as they show it!

Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you?

Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable emotion?

Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you  back then nothing can be done about it?

Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you?

Most of us believe that love is completely random that can never be controlled or manipulated; however, the shocking truth is that love and hatred are fully controlled by the mind. If you can come to understand the logic behind the mind’s operation then you will have a good chance of making someone fall in love with you.

Love is just like any other psychological emotion you experience and so it can be controlled.
While this information might not work one hundred percent of the time still it will at least double or even triple your chances of making someone fall in love with you.

How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You On This Valentine: 6 Easy Steps-

 

The following are methods and ways that can help you in making someone fall in love with you. Note that most of them are based on the psychology of falling in love so it’s better to read a little about it before you start.

Master The Art of Reading Body Language- Body language is a huge part of love. You see, psychologists have studied couples in every stage of their relationship. At different stages, the couples have different body language. But, there is a definite pattern of body language that is followed by all couples. Nobody taught you this body language. You just know it. You knew it when you were born. Then the media and friends etc. confused you. When people search for a partner they unconsciously try to find someone who has similar traits to the ones they like about themselves and different traits than the ones they hate about themselves.So the trick is to show them that you have got what they need.

Figure out The Check List of their Unconscious Mind- .Inside the mind of every one of us is a quick list or basic criteria that must be met before we can fall in love with someone. Although meeting these criteria does not necessarily guarantee that we will love the person still not meeting any of them makes it certain that we will never love him. Examples of these criteria can be: "He must be outspoken", "He must be an optimistic" …etc. It has been found that introvert people are more likely attracted towards extrovert persons with lively attitude towards life, and vice-verse. You should try to know the background of the person you like and attempt to meet his basic criteria else you will be rejected before you even begin. Should you push too hard? Will trying or chasing harder work? Or does chasing him/her or asking him/her out several times work?

Doing these things will most likely work if your target partner suffers from external dependency. External dependency is the act of being dependent on something or someone to feel good or to escape a bad mood. When someone becomes externally dependent it's likely that he'll jump at the first chance of getting into a relationship.But the trick only works on people who are desperate to mingle. So before you start to push hard, you should understand the nature and emotional needs of your partner.

Reprogramming The Subconscious Mind- Mind In Your Favor: The subconscious mind can be programmed to accept something by continuous repetition. This doesn't mean that you should call your partner every five minutes because that would bother his/her conscious mind. Chasing the subconscious mind requires no more than staying in sight and letting him see you a lot. Even if you hardly talk just staying in the person's sight will help you program his mind in a better way: If you have mutual friends then you are even luckier because the subconscious mind is programmed much easier by trusted sources. The more your common friends talk about you in a good way in front of him and the more they remind him of how great you are (something you'll probably have to arrange) the better will be your chances of having a place in his/her subconscious mind.

Play the Game of Hide & Seek- Once we start liking something, it becomes really difficult to stay away of it no matter if the thing is the person you love or the latest i-phone model you bought. It may sound harsh, but it is absolutely true. It is the way our mind works. So once your partner start liking you, start playing the game of hide and seek with him/her. When you are with them, give them your entire attention and time, where on the other day, try to ignore them completely. This fluctuation in your approach, will confuse them and their mind will be forced to think of more and more about you. And as we know, the more we think of  something or someone, the more important that particular person or thing becomes for us.

Just Read Their Minds- Well, if you ask a man, what kind of women he would prefer, one who plays “hard to get” or one who plays “easy to get”, most men will tell you the woman who plays “hard to get”. But unfortunately, even though this is what men say, this is not really what they feel.

Basically, a man is much more attracted to a woman if he knows that she is “hard to get” for other men but “easy to get” for him. This makes the women feel very attractive and special in the man’s eyes. considering playing hard to get, but not every time. For girls- When he asks you for a date, respond immediately and energetically, "Oh, I'd love to!" But then, later, subtly drop hints that you're hard to get for other men. Be very subtle.

The Final Task; Asking Her to Be Your Valentine- If have done it properly, their frustration will lead them to either confess their feeling in front of you or will turn into an immediate approval when you propose them.Wait until Valentine’s Day, and wait until she's sitting down. It adds something special if her friends are there, and then it'll make her pleased you've done it in front of your friend, and it'll give her a boost, the fact that you asked her in front of all her friends.

Get a single red rose, and while she's sitting down, go up behind her, give her a kiss on the cheek, then kneel down and hand her the rose. It may sound unbelievably cheesy, but to a girl it can be lovely and classy.

Now, just go and make your move and have a very happy valentine’s day!

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